Asking This Question Every Day Expands Your Sense of Time

Everybody I know, no matter what age —twenty-something or sixty-something —or where they live —big city or small town— tells me how fast they feel time flying. Of the many theories about why we perceive time to be moving so fast, the most widespread is that our days are so busy and scheduled, and our attention so fragmented, we aren’t aware of what we are doing nor remembering what we did. As Laura Vanderkam writes in Fast Company, having more memories makes you feel like you have more time. 

I’ve been practicing her method for embedding memories: Ask yourself

How is today different from other days?

Is it the walk I took with a friend?… the unexpectedly illuminating conversation I had with a stranger on the subway-ride to a meeting?.. the artwork I enjoyed in the park across the way?…


Sculpture by Maren Hassinger; photo by Sally Schneider

…the hawk sitting in a tree on the corner?

Sally Schneider

Asking Why is today different from other days?  makes me more aware of the elements of the day, and spurs me to build in memorable moments, often by simply noticing what’s going on around me…

Which is what Li Po was doing in the 8th century…

Gently I stir a white feather fan,
With open shirt sitting in a green wood.
I take off my cap and hang it on a jutting stone;
A wind from the pine-trees trickles on my bare head.

—Li Po (8th century)

4 Responses to Asking This Question Every Day Expands Your Sense of Time

  1. Peggy Markel 06.18.2018 at 10:18am #

    I Love the simple, clear and uncomplicated messages in your posts. Thank you.

  2. Charlie Allenson 06.18.2018 at 11:06am #

    Your posts are always inspiring, illuminating, and insightful.

    Thank you.

  3. Leonora 03.01.2019 at 4:28am #

    I suggest: “In what way” is today different? “Why” puts me in linear thought rather than creative/intuitive.

  4. Sally Schneider 06.17.2019 at 8:39pm #

    Hi. I tried it with “In what way” but found it to be too specific…. (: Ha. Such different perceptions. But we get the gist!

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